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Can’t Get Over a Breakup? These 5 Songs Have Your Back

Love can sometimes be about loss. And heartache from a breakup is inevitable.

Just as love songs can fuel your passion for a budding relationship, an appropriate selection of music can help heal the pain of a breakup. The following songs are tracks I have personally found to be uplifting anytime I’ve been down, especially after experiencing heartbreak.

“Better in Time” by Leona Lewis

After the success of “Bleeding Love,” this song emerged onto the international music scene with generally positive feedback. It also reinforces the old adage that time heals all wounds.

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“Dear No One” by Tori Kelly

Released in 2013, this was my introduction to her music. The lyrics encourage waiting for the right one, and the musical content provides a lovely background to the positive message.

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“Irreplaceable” by Beyonce

Probably one of her most memorable singles, it is one of the few breakup songs that actually has a catchy beat. Music lovers of all ages have a fondness for this song whether or not they have experienced the painful loss of a breakup.

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“Someone Like You” by Adele

The second single from her second album, this track deals with the struggle most face after losing a lover: replacing someone you thought was your soul mate. It allows a broken soul the cathartic experience sometimes needed before being able to move on.

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“I Will Always Love You” by Whitney Houston

Although originally released (and written) almost two decades earlier by Dolly Parton, this powerful ballad accompanied the film “The Bodyguard.” The lyrics have one central theme that many find personally true for them:

Sometimes love continues long after goodbye.

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–Araceli M. Ream

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Motivational Music: 20 Songs to Get You Moving


We can all use a little motivation in our lives, and music is one of the most enjoyable ways to kick up the inspiration to accomplish any tasks that arise in April. Whether you need songs to help you through a workout, a soundtrack while studying, or background music while working outdoors, here are some great examples for music to get you moving!

“Best Day Of My Life” by American Authors:  YouTubeSpotify

“Chandelier (Four Tet Remix)” by Sia: YouTubeSpotify

“Dance With Me Tonight” by Olly Murs: YouTubeSpotify

“Feel So Close” by Calvin Harris: YouTubeSpotify

“I’m Amazed” by My Morning Jacket: YouTubeSpotify

“Safe And Sound” by Capital Cities: YouTubeSpotify

“Umbrella (feat. JAY-Z)” by Rihanna: YouTubeSpotify

“Jump Around” by House of Pain: YouTubeSpotify

“Runaway” by Kanye West: YouTubeSpotify

“Take on Me” by a-ha: YouTubeSpotify

“Dani California” by The Red Hot Chili Peppers: YouTubeSpotify

“Super Bass” by Nicki Minaj: YouTubeSpotify

“Stereo Hearts (feat. Adam Levine)” by Gym Class Heroes: SpotifySpotify

“Fruit Machine” by The Ting Tings: YouTubeSpotify

“Bust A Move” by Young MC: YouTubeSpotify

“Beverly Hills” by Weezer: YouTubeSpotify

“Neon Lights” by Demi Lovato: YouTubeSpotify

“Epic” by Faith No More: YouTubeSpotify


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Time Travel to the 90’s – 20 Songs For Your Mix Tape


“The 1990’s was one of the most musically diverse decades in history. Pop and heavy metal decreased in popularity, while alternative or grunge rock emerged onto the scene.

This era also marked some of the most formidable years in my life. I graduated from high school and college, got married and had my first baby, and started my first teaching job. The following songs will always take me right back to the memories made during that time period.”  – Araceli

 “More Than Words” by Extreme (1990)

Memorable lyrics: Just reach out your hands and touch me. Hold me close; don’t ever let me go.

“Smells Like Teen Spirit” by Nirvana (1991)

Memorable lyrics: “When the light’s out, it’s less dangerous. Here we are now. Entertain us.”


“I Will Always Love You” by Whitney Houston (1992)

Memorable lyrics: I hope life treats you kind, and I hope you have all you’ve dreamed of. And I wish you joy and happiness, but above all, I wish you love.


“Shoop” by Salt-N-Pepa (1993)

Memorable lyrics: Wicked, wicked, had to kick it. I’m not shy, so I asked for the digits.


“I Swear” by All 4 One (1994)

Memorable lyrics:  I swear, by the moon and the stars, I’ll be there.


“Hand In My Pocket” by Alanis Morrisette (1995)

Memorable lyrics: What it all comes down to is that everything’s gonna be fine, fine, fine. ‘Cause I’ve got one hand in my pocket, and the other one is giving a high five.


“Change the World” by Eric Clapton (1996)

Memorable lyrics: I can change the world. I could be the sunlight in your universe.


“How Do I Live” by LeAnn Rimes (1997)  

Memorable lyrics: Without you, there’d be no sun in my sky. There would be no love in my life. There’d be no world left for me.


“Ghetto Superstar” by Pras (1998)

Run away with me to another place. We can rely on each other, from one corner to another.


“Amazed” by Lonestar (1999)

Every little thing that you do… Baby, I’m amazed by you.



“These songs take me to my sisters bedroom in the 90’s. Her room was decorated with magazine cut outs of Calvin Klein ads, a huge Kurt Cobain poster, a lava lamp and the teenage essence of leave me alone. Shout out to Angela for always letting her little sister hang with her, and making me feel super cool.  – Stephanie


“Everlong” by Foo Fighters 1997


Memorable lyrics: Breathe out so I can breathe you in. Hold you in.


“Better Man” by Pearl Jam 1994

Memorable lyrics: She lies and says she’s in love with him, can’t find a better man…


“Shine” by Collective Soul 1993

Memorable lyrics: Whoa, heaven let your light shine down


1979“ by The Smashing Pumpkins 1995

Memorable lyrics: And we don’t know / Just where our bones will rest / To dust I guess


“Something in the Way” by Nirvana 1991

Memorable lyrics: Something in the way, mmm


“The Freshmen” by The Verve Pipe

Memorable lyrics: For the life of me I can not remember What made us think that we were wise and we’d never compromise.


“No Rain” by Blind Melon

Memorable lyrics: I just want some one to say to me, “I’ll always be there when you wake.”


“Lighting Crashes” by Live 1994

Memorable lyrics: oh now feel it comin’ back again like a rollin’ thunder chasing the wind forces pullin’ from the center of the earth again I can feel it.



“Santeria” by Sublime 1995

Memorable lyrics: What I really wanna know, mah baby, mmmm… What I really wanna say I can’t define. Well, it’s love, that I need. Oh…



“Brick” by Ben Folds Five 1997

Memorable lyrics: She’s a brick and I’m drowning slowly Off the coast and I’m headed nowhere She’s a brick and I’m drowning slowly

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8 Albums to Enjoy from Start to Finish

Over the years, I have broadened my knowledge of music and have enlarged the size of my music library. After listening to many albums repeatedly, and through some suggestions from my sixteen-year-old son, I have compiled a list of ten albums that contain a perfect collection of songs.

Thankfully, through the advancement of technology, we have websites such as YouTube and Spotify where it is easy to access almost any music that comes to mind. You will find links to enjoy the albums that I highly recommend, each example listed in chronological order according to release date.

“Rumours” by Fleetwood Mac 


This album was released in 1977 with a total of eleven songs. You can find them on YouTubeSpotify has a Super Deluxe version of the album as well.

“The Little Mermaid: Original Motion Picture Soundtrack  

The Little Mermaid

When the film was released in 1989, the songs soon captured my heart. The original soundtrack contained twenty tracks, exactly half of them songs. Although the full album is not available on Spotify, many of the songs can be found on the site. YouTube has a later version of the soundtrack available.

“Songs about Jane” by Maroon 5  

Songs About Jane

In 2002, Maroon 5 made their music debut with an album containing twelve Selections. Their YouTube Vevo channel has a playlist of the music videos corresponding to each track. Their YouTube Vevo channel has a playlist of the music videos corresponding to each track.

You can find the 10th Anniversary edition on Spotify.

“Dreaming Out Loud” by OneRepublic  

Dreaming Out Loud

OneRepublic came onto the music scene in 2007. Their debut album is also a favorite of mine. It contained thirteen tracks in total. A playlist of each song’s music video is available on YouTube.

Spotify has the full album as well.

“Let Love In” by Goo Goo Dolls  

Let Love In

Goo Goo Dolls released eleven songs on their eighth album in 2006. Their typically rock tracks resounded with my fondness for alternative rock in this period of my life. You can watch the music videos for this album on YouTube. You can find the same songs from the album on Spotify.

“Waking Up” by OneRepublic 

Waking Up

The album to follow up the success of OneRepublic’s debut solidified my love for their music. There was eleven tracks on this release. Another playlist on YouTube contains a compilation of music videos. There are sixteen songs on the Deluxe version on Spotify.

“Guardians of the Galaxy: Awesome Mix Vol. 1 (Original Motion Picture Soundtrack)” 

Guardians of the Galaxy

Months before the film debuted in theaters, I had the privilege of being exposed to the classic tracks included in this album. Although released in 2014, all of the twelve songs were previously listed in the 1960’s and 1970’s. You can listen to the complete album on YouTube.

“Hamilton: An American Musical (Original Broadway Cast Recording) 


This soundtrack was released when the musical was first performed in 2015. Another album brought to my attention, I couldn’t stop listening to it for months. Listen to the complete album on YouTube. It is on Spotify as well.

I’m sure there are dozens of phenomenal albums I have yet to recall or to discover, but the eight listed above are a great example of music if you need some new recommendations.

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Feature by Instahaikugram


For those of you unfamiliar with @aracelimream it’s a real honor to introduce her this morning as our Featured Writer. An Army wife who started writing again when she met her husband-to-be almost 3 years ago, she adds this insight: “I had written a lot of poetry, prose, and songs during my childhood and through college. I write because I have words and feelings inside of me that want to be shared. And I love the poetry community on Instagram.” Ariceli also has 3 kids, 2 step kids, an English bulldog, and a cat. She continues, “My hobbies include reading, running, and listening to music.” You owe it to yourself to visit her page!


In part 2 of our continuing Featured Writer Series with @aracelimream the conversation continued: “I studied music education in college (piano and voice), play the drums as well, and taught elementary music for over 4 years. I used to write for ‘A Better Today Media,’ an online magazine, when they were still active. And I have a poem published in ‘Love Poetry’: ‘An International Anthology of Poems on Love, Romance, and Relationships.'” A great example of what a writer can accomplish through hard work and dedication, Araceli is an inspiration to us all. We are honored to feature you! Thanks again for sharing with us at #instahaikugram 👌

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10 Romantic Love Quotes by Araceli M. Ream with Images

Araceli M. Ream’s simple yet profound prose, reaches out and touches your soul. We’re so happy to feature her writing. You may find that it’s exactly what you want to express to your Valentine this year.


“Your fingertips speak their own language, silent words of love etching onto my skin.”

– Araceli M. Ream


“Sometimes you don’t realize what is missing in your life until it arrives.”

– Araceli M. Ream


“Your love speaks even when there is silence.” – Araceli M. Ream


“You are the center of my universe.” – Araceli M. Ream


“I was lost until I found my home in your heart.” – Araceli M. Ream


“You see right through me, ignoring my outer flaws, loving the real me.”

– Araceli M. Ream


“Lazy Sunday’s were made for lovers.” – Araceli M. Ream


“You are my sunrise. My life began when I met you.” – Araceli M. Ream


” The safest place I’ve ever known is in your arms.” – Araceli M. Ream


“Two sounds that have become precious to me: the beating of your heart, and the breath from your lips.”

– Araceli M. Ream

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Live a Life of Love and Acceptance

“I look to a day when people will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.

Over the history of the United States, people have been judged by appearance, mainly gender and ethnicity. Although life has changed for minorities in America since Martin Luther King, Jr.’s lifetime, there is still a struggle for people who don’t fit society’s standard of what is normal.

Autism is a disorder that affects one in sixty-eight children, as stated by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in 2014.  Apart from interacting with autistic children during my college education and throughout my years of teaching music, I have not experienced the struggle of being a parent with an autistic child.

However, I recently had the opportunity to watch a film portraying the struggles of a fictional character with a high functioning form of autism. This provoked a series of thoughts relevant to issues Martin Luther King, Jr. addressed during his lifetime.


“If we let the world set expectations, they’ll stay where they are.” – The Accountant, 2016


We have been programmed to judge people based on appearance and to fear and reject those who are different from us. Even as a minority, an immigrant at an early age, I have still been fortunate to have the support and the acceptance I needed to become the person I am today.

As a parent, I am overwhelmed at times with what children have to experience compared to the simpler days of my childhood and adolescence. It has been difficult at times to help them battle the different stereotypes, bullying, and social pressures that are common among adolescents today.

I have found several ways for both children and adults to instill confidence, to encourage individuality, and to build a foundation for love and acceptance for all:

1. Recognize the differences in others as an extension of their personality, not as a threat to the individual.

2. Take time to become acquainted with people of different backgrounds and to learn about their cultures.

3. Encourage children to identify both strengths and weaknesses, understanding that they are what define them and what can help them relate to others with the same struggles.

4. Show a positive example of tolerance and open-mindedness to those around you.

5. Find opportunities to discover and to experience other cultures, such as ethnic festivals and other multi-cultural events.

Even amidst all of the chaos and war in this world, it is a relief and an encouragement to know that there are many who are already living a life of love and acceptance.


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